Beyond Contradictions: A Deeper Faith
It’s normal to feel confused when things seem to contradict each other, but contradictions are not always a bad thing. They can actually teach us a lot.
The Wisdom in Contradictory Advice
When two proverbs seem to conflict, they are often just two sides of the same coin. Consider the following examples:
- “Out of sight, out of mind” and “Absence makes the heart grow fonder.” One suggests forgetting what isn’t there, while the other says being apart can make you miss something more. Both are true, depending on the person and the situation.
- “It’s better to be safe than sorry” and “Nothing ventured, nothing gained.” One advises caution, the other encourages risk. Both are valuable lessons that apply in different contexts.
- “Many hands make work light” and “Too many cooks spoil the broth.” One praises teamwork, while the other warns against a lack of clear leadership. The wisdom of each depends on the task and the dynamics of the group.
Instead of choosing one over the other, these proverbs teach us to think more critically about when to apply which piece of advice.
Contradictions in the World and in People
Our world is full of things that defy simple logic. For instance, we learn that water can be solid, liquid, or gas, but it’s a scientific fact that water can exist in all three states at the same time. This is called the Triple Point, and it proves that just because something is difficult to understand doesn’t mean it isn’t true.
Similarly, people can be full of contradictions. A person might offer wise advice while failing to follow it himself. For example, a coach might tell you to “do what I say, not what I do.” While this highlights the coach’s own flaws, the command itself might still be a good one to follow. These inconsistencies show us the complexity of human nature and remind us not to be too quick to judge. As the Bible says, “Do not judge, or you too will be judged.” (Mt 7:1) We all have our own contradictions to work through.
Moving Beyond Simple Thinking
The Apostle Paul wrote about his own inner struggle, saying, “I do not understand what I do. For what I want to do I do not do, but what I hate I do” (Rom 7:15). Yet, he also instructed others to “Follow my example, as I follow the example of Christ” (1 Cor 11:1).
Paul was aware of his own imperfections, so he encouraged people to focus on the good example of Christ rather than on his own flaws. When we see contradictions in others, we should try to do the same—focus on the positive lessons and avoid their mistakes. This helps us learn from their good actions without being held back by their imperfections.
The Bible itself contains passages that can seem contradictory, such as those that emphasize God’s sovereignty and others that focus on human choice. Instead of being a problem, this tension invites us to a deeper, more profound understanding of the relationship between God and humanity. It challenges us to move beyond a simple, black-and-white view of faith.
Embracing Our Flaws and Finding Grace
As humans, we are “simultaneously righteous and a sinner,” as Martin Luther described. We are both good and flawed at the same time. Our inner struggles and contradictions aren’t a sign of failure but a humble reminder of our human limitations. This very struggle highlights our need for God’s grace.
Our imperfections don’t disqualify us; they make the unearned gift of grace all the more powerful and necessary. This is the truth found in Ephesians 2:8-9: that salvation is a gift received through faith, not a reward for our own efforts. It is precisely because of our flaws that we can truly embrace God’s grace.
Questions to think about
How do you view contradictions in your own life and faith? Do you see them as a point of confusion or a chance for deeper understanding?
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